PAUSE – 17.01 – Where Will You Be This Time Next Year?
January 11, 2017
Reflection: Happy 2017 to you! It’s a new year and a fresh start. How are things going so far?
For many years now, I’ve set aside a couple of days at the beginning of January to look back at the year that was and forward to the year that lies ahead. It’s a great way to mark progress – and, let’s face it, sometimes note the lack thereof!
A couple of years ago I also started the practice of tossing notes in one of two jars throughout the year. One jar holds notes about things I hope will come to pass. The other jar holds gratitudes – notes about experiences and people I appreciate as the year unfolds. It’s fun to flip through both before starting afresh each January. (more…)
Happy New Year
January 5, 2017
Happy New Year to one and all. I hope you were able to enjoy a few days of relaxation with friends and family to close out 2016 and welcome the year ahead.
I don’t know how you started your year, but I spent a couple of days in planning – one looking back at the year that was and another looking forward to 2017.
I find that taking the time to do this helps me set a more intentional direction for both my work and personal life.
It’s not too late to tackle this for yourself. If you’d like some guides to the process, here are few that I’ve found useful over the years: (more…)
PAUSE – 16.33 – Wishing You All The Best Of The Season
December 21, 2016
For the last few years, I’ve devoted the final December Pause message to one key idea. Peace, joy, love, hope, kindness, grace, presence, gratitude, and contentment have all taken their turns in the spotlight.
This year my choice is happiness. There has been a ton of research done on happiness, and more than a few words printed on the subject. Launch a web search for happiness, and you’ll be rewarded with more than 400 million results. Trying to wade your way through that might wipe the smile off your face!
Some of the guidance on happiness suggests it’s something to be vigorously pursued. Another common point of view suggests happiness is a natural by-product of achieving things and contributing to the well-being of others.
What resonates most strongly for me is the idea that happiness already exists in our lives, and that we’d experience it more often if we only paused to pay closer attention.
So that is my year-end wish for you – that you find the space and make the time to savor those bits of happiness already enriching your life and your world.
Below you’ll find a sampling of quotes on happiness (quite a few by the prolific freelance writer, Robert Brault). (more…)
PAUSE – 16.32 – Could What You Have Really Be Enough?
December 14, 2016
My father-in-law loved a good meal. Joy spread like his grin – from ear to ear – every time he carved the first slice from the end of a fresh baked loaf of bread.
He liked his tea scalding and his soup steaming; and was known to return both to the kitchen for a reheat if they weren’t to his liking.
But what I remember most clearly is how he punctuated every meal by settling back in his chair, patting his belly, and declaring: “My sufficiency has been suffonsified!”
He always appreciated what he had received, and affirmed it to be enough. (more…)
PAUSE – 16.31 – Are You Sure About That?
December 7, 2016
Reflection: There’s a lot of uncertainty in the world these days. More than usual? It’s tough to say.
Some would argue that certainty is just an illusion anyway – that uncertainty is our normal state.
Still, I’m pretty certain that I’m writing this, you’re reading this, and the sun will rise tomorrow. Not everything, though, is quite so clear.
There are those whose health has taken a turn for the worse. They’re waiting for tests, a diagnosis, treatment, or recovery.
There are those whose relationships are in trouble, with teenagers challenging boundaries or partners growing apart.
There is uncertainty at work. More than one sector has taken a recent turn for the worse. Layoffs are common and restructuring is afoot.
World events (including the recent US election) have created turmoil and upset for many.
So, when the future is uncertain, other than stew, what can you do?
Action: Here are seven strategies to help you cope with the challenge of not knowing. (more…)
PAUSE – 16.30 – What’s Your Impact Going To Be Today?
November 30, 2016
It’s true. Our presence, our words, and our actions all have an impact on others. Being absent, saying nothing, and doing nothing also have an impact on others.
And, as I expect Goodall is suggesting in this quote, those same behaviours have an impact on our world at large.
If you set out to have the most positive impact on people and places in your world today, where would you be, what would you say, and what would you do?
Precious Moments Video …
Earlier this month, I wrote about the value of paying attention in a Precious Moments Pause Blog post.
I also invited you to share photos of some of your precious moments, and offered to compile them in a slide show/video.
As promised, here, it is. Thanks to all of you who added your special moments to this collection.
Click here or click on the Precious Moments image above to watch and enjoy! (more…)
Introducing Your 2016 Seasonal Bundle
November 24, 2016
I’m feeling the spirit of the season and I hope that you are, too!
And, I’m delighted to send some good will – and a few savings – your way with this year’s Seasonal Bundle.
I’ve done this for a few years now. And each time I offer a combo that’s just a little bit different from the year before.
This year, to help you celebrate this season of light and the 12 days of Christmas – I have packaged up a dozen Seasonal Bundles that each contain the following:
- 12 copies of the booklet, Take A Bow
- 12 copies of the booklet, Take A Break
- 12 copies of the book, Press Pause…Press On
- 12 copies of the book, Press Pause…Think Again
- Plus with each order you receive a bonus original PKatz watercolor sketch surface mounted on a 6×8” mat ready for framing (Keep it for yourself or gift it to someone else.)
All told, at regular pricing, this would be a $750 value. These seasonal bundles are priced at $250. (Shipping & tax included)
The fine print? Only 12 bundles on offer. Only available in Canada. Order before December 24/2015.
These books are the perfect gifts of encouragement for colleagues, employees, clients, friends and family.
At this price, you could gift 12 people with the full set of four publications for just $20 each AND provide something that delivers value well into the new year.
Order your bundle today and delight others tomorrow!
This link takes you to the Seasonal Bundle order form.
If you’d like to take a peak into all the publications, this link will take you to that info.
PAUSE – 16.29 – Can You See Yourself As A Perennial?
November 23, 2016
Reflection: Traditionalists, Boomers, Gen X, Gen Y, and Millenials are all labels assigned to groups of people of a certain age.
In a world where we look for easy answers and ready-made explanations, this pigeonholing has gained a lot of traction. However, oversimplifying can build barriers instead of connections.
Each group is portrayed as having predictable motivations, values and behaviours. Those characterizations are not always accurate. For each generalization, most of us could cite an exception to the rule.
In truth, many of us share common values and aspirations despite the fact that we were born and raised in different times.
For these reasons, I was intrigued to read a recent article by Gina Pell, who notes that there are individuals of every age who live in the present, connect to world developments, and relate to others of varied ages. They stay curious and relevant, keep learning and growing, and consistently try new things.
Her tag for these folks? (more…)
PAUSE – 16.28 – How To Loosen Up & Lighten Up
November 16, 2016
I wrote this message on November 14 in honor of ‘Loosen Up, Lighten Up Day’. (Thanks to my perennially good humored friend, Michael Kerr, for bringing these special days to our attention.)
A number of recent events (your list here…) might have prompted you to do just the opposite – to tighten up, flip out, or tilt to the dark side.
What if we could find a few ways to loosen our grip and lighten our mood? Well, here’s a handful of starter actions to lead you down that road: (more…)
PAUSE – 16.27 – Regrets? How Do You Make Them Fewer?
November 9, 2016
Reflection: If you’ve been following some of the work I’ve shared over the last year with respect to Spark & Malaise, you’ll recall me mentioning Bonnie Ware’s findings on the regrets people express near the ends of their lives.
In her research, the number one regret Ware heard repeatedly was that ‘people wished they’d had the courage to live a life true to themselves instead of the lives that others expected of them.’
That top finding is echoed in more recent research by Kathy Caprino.
In Caprino’s survey of those at an earlier stage in their lives (middle age and mid-career), she found the following top five regrets: (more…)