Pause Gem #42 – Less Really Can Mean More
Reflection & Action: Several times over the years, I’ve created lists of things I might like to Do, Be and Have. The current lingo would label it a Vision Board (thank you, Oprah) or a Bucket List (thank you, Jack Nicholson). No matter what you call it, the exercise creates a set of intentions and desires for the future.
What was of interest to me on a recent round of inquiry was what showed up in the ‘What I’d Like To Have’ column. In my earlier days, I found it easy to come up with a lengthy list of possessions that I imagined might somehow make my life better.
However, on this particular day, the very first entry – top of the list – popped out without hesitation. What would I most like to have? Less stuff!
The idea of more stuff has less and less appeal. I’ve taken that insight to heart and I’m sifting stuff, ditching junk, and clearing space.
Old magazines. Gone! Outdated software disks and manuals. Gone! Home decorations that have lost their appeal. Gone! That mountain of cardboard boxes saved just in case they might be needed. Gone!
The garbage bin is brimming and the recycling bin is bursting. The Salvation Army Thrift Shop folks were beaming with my first delivery of six boxes and a suitcase full of stuff.
Are you looking to lighten up? Chucking the clutter is a great way to do just that.
Take a good look around. This stuff grows invisible over time. See what kind of excess may be cramping your style. Move it on and move it out.
A little elbow grease may buy you a little elbow room – and a whole lot more breathing space.
Quotes Of The Week: Don’t own so much clutter that you will be relieved to see your house catch fire. – Wendell Berry
Give me the discipline to get rid of the stuff that’s not important, the freedom to savor the stuff that gives me joy, and the patience not to worry about the stuff that’s messy but not hurting anybody. – Vinita Wright
Clutter is not just physical stuff. It’s old ideas, toxic relationships and bad habits. Clutter is anything that does not support your better self. – Eleanor Brownn
Resource Of The Week: You might find value in this article by Mikael Cho: How Clutter Affects You (And What You Can Do About It).
Readers Write: Pause reader KG writes: I have been working away at reducing my stuff for a couple of years now. Fishing gear? Not likely to ever use that again! Bags of wool and material scraps – not! And the list goes on. I recently canceled my subscription to the daily newspaper. I listen to radio during the day and faithfully watch the news each night. So by the time the paper arrives in the morning, it is flip, flip, done. Other than a couple of interesting OpEds (and not all that frequent) and the obits, the paper contains nothing I don’t already know. Since cancelling, I haven’t missed it at all and am relieved not to have all that paper clutter!
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